The Good, The Bad....The GROUPIE

Tuesday night I was at a popular club called "My House" which is located in Hollywood. Tuesday nights are especially known for its large black crowd full of athletes, producers, and the occasional artist. On this particular Tuesday it seemed like everyone and there mama was there from Ocho Cinco to Vernon Davis to the Lakers and many more.

Earlier in the day I hung out with a friend of mine that happens to play in the NBA, lets just call him Dan, and we had an interesting chat. I asked him if he was happy , fully expecting him to say "Of course I'm happy...I'm rich... I'm young....I'm handsome...and I talk to beautiful women all the time." To my surprise he quickly answered no....So of course I asked what would make him happy. He said women definitely don't and spending money never makes him happy just neutral. The convo ended for awhile and we sat in silence watching a movie. Then I later asked him about a party I wanted him to host and he said "but no one will come" I immediately laughed and joked "all your groupies will come....Dan looked at me with that face he always gives that is, well priceless, "B, I have no groupies....those are club groupies."

So that night at My House I made it a point to hang around and people watch....I hung out casually around Dan's VIP table and watched as the groupies came...not knowing who Dan was but just saw a tall black man with bling and bottles. I've never really just sat back and watched people at a club( except to watch funny people dance ;) ) andI'll admit I was very shocked at what I saw.

Dan's VIP section included himself, a music producer buddy and about ten random girls all gunning for those two guys. It was like they had a magnetic p***** that was attracted to the diamond necklaces...it was like watching the animal channel conducting a mating season marthone ....each girl got her 2 minutes to spend with Dan and the producer before another girl with a bigger ass bumped her out of the way. All the while the guys just poppin' their bottles, chanting the song " i wish i could fuck every girl in the world" only proved they didnt care which girl was around. Like they almost wanted the women to fight and whoever was the strongest, would be the one by his side at the end of the night.

Now, why is it that girls are chasing men like this soooo hard? I can understand a women being attracted to a successful, handsome man....but what happened to values and playing a little hard to get sometimes ladies??? And men what happened to trying to chase women a little bit....I'm no relationship guru or anything but fellas....STOP being with the groupies who just want to get pregnant by you or say they slept with you and start treating the ones who really care about you right....cuz at the end of the day the saying "it aint ya beauty its ya booty" only sounds good in an uncle luke video!!!!