Love a Lie.....

DDDDAAAAMMMMNNNN is all i have to say to this DIRK NOWITZKI- CRISTAL TAYLOR business. If you don't already know the story I will briefly explain.

Dallas Mavs, Dirk Nowitzki, has allegedly known this chick Cristal for like 8 years and she has been living with him for about a year and a half ( they are engaged to be wed). Nowitzki's old coach said 'Look Dirk, you need to get a background check and a prenup on this gold diggin beezy' (not in those exact words but im sure it was pretty close). So Dirk does and apparently this bitch has like 8 aliases and is on probation and was a stripper and GOD only knows what else....so she gets arrested at his house and while in jail she finds out she's pregnant!!! What sucks for this man is he was probably hoping to get a green card outta this honey but instead ends up with a crazy (literally) baby mama.

Now this story definitely inspired my chick chat tonight. I personally have experienced being "in love" or "like" with a complete lie... I've had guys pretend they were someone or something other than what they were or guys just flat out lie about how they feel. I can only imagine what athletes must go through with women on a daily basis. How can they truly know if someone loves them for them or just for their money or the title they carry?

Honestly, i feel like they probably don't care because most (notice i didn't say all) of these dudes are just as shallow as the women they talk too. In fact I will go as far as to say they are groupies too ( i knw i need to come up with a new word). But what im saying is the truthl so honey imma keep on preachin'...

Now, society always feels bad for the athletes....poor them because they can't find true love ....all women are groupies or gold diggers and only want to be with them for their millions. Give me a break ....have you seen the women these men date? It's always some fine ass model or in some cases an ugly rich girl that just happens to be on a reality show ;) or she's in the lime light somehow. Oh and if it's not some girl like that; chances are he was with the girl when he was younger, got her knocked up and realized its cheaper to marry her then to pay child support but he is going to mess with other women anyway so..... ain't no sweat of his back, right?

Now im not blind to triflin' chicks, I'm just expressing the fact that these athletes are just the same...if you go fishing with a pole, hook and some worms and try to catch a deer it's not gonna happen....all your gonna catch is fish and maybe an old boot. Certain athletes are the same way they bring the bate for the groupies and gold diggers ( i.e. going to the club popping bottles all the time and taking her only to expensive dinners) so GUESS WHAT?? thats what your gonna catch.

However, if you meet a girl and she likes to just lay around the house with you, cook you dinner, talk about your hopes, dreams and fears , maybe laugh a little (i know I'm corny)...maybe she might be worth taking the time to know....

But who am I kidding.....most of them just want some booty....

ddh